Momistan understands how Pakistani system of “joint” families have all the capabilities to make motherhood feel overwhelming. There is a continuous bombardment of opinions, advice and expectation, even if one wants it or not. Personal space is a no-go area, especially when it comes to playing. Independent play is not about leaving your children unattended, it is about creating an individual space for growth and emotional regulation, gently. In Pakistan, it is a matter of great concern for the mothers when their child cannot even get a few minutes alone for play, especially in joint families.
What Is meant by “Independent Play” for Toddlers?
Independent play is all about when a toddler engages in play on their own while a caregiver or a guardian remains nearby, and attentive all the time. This process allows children to explore, learn, and build confidence at their own pace.
Importance of Independent Play
Independent play supports creativity among children, increase their focus, emotional regulation, and creates in them the ability of early problem-solving skills. It also prepares toddlers for preschool and socialization where constant adult attention is not possible.
Joint Families and Independent Play in Pakistan
In Pakistan, joint families keep toddlers surrounded with love and attention. While this love and support is valuable and important for a child, constant intervention can limit a child’s opportunity to explore independently. It creates a lack of self-confidence in them as they become reliant on people around them for decision making. Balance in any case is always essential.
How Parents Can Encourage Independent Play
Parents can encourage independent play by creating a safe play corner, offering simple open-ended toys, reducing screen time, and allowing their child for short periods of independent play while staying nearby for reassurance and safety.
Independent play is an essential journey in children’s life, not a milestone. Progress may be slow, but every small step matters. With patience, consistency and understanding, even joint family environments can nurture children into confident, capable human beings of the future.
Dear moms, Momistan is here to walk alongside mothers during the most important early years of parenting. If you are a new mom, looking out for trusted guidance and emotional support with development-focused resources for your child, Momistan is here to stay with you as your partner in raising confident little humans.
